ESSEX HYPNOTHERAPY BWRT

Have you ever wondered why some children in one family are different to each other, even though their upbringing is the same? Well, the answer lies in our natural born instincts! This explanation might help the school holidays to be enjoyed by all the family, without too many squabbles!

Each of us is born with several different parts of our personality, and all together those parts make us who we are. These parts are natural instinctive drives – they’ re our blueprint for what we will become as we grow up. There’s the part that is determined and logical, the part that is nurturing and caring, and the part that likes to have fun without too much responsibility. When we’re born, one of those parts will probably be the dominant part of our true selves, and therefore seen as our personality, but sometimes the household we grow up in has parents or siblings with different instincts as the dominant part of their personality.

This is not something which is under conscious control, because it is an inbuilt instinct, just as getting out of the way of a speeding car! For example, a studious, logical child may feel that boisterous siblings are annoying, while the siblings may feel the logical, studious child is boring! A very nurturing environment may feel over protective for an analytical child when they enter teenage years, and a very caring, nurturing child may feel an analytical, more serious member of the family group could “lighten up and relax”.

Understanding your own and others’ way of being is of enormous benefit in life! If you would like to know more about your own personality drives, please get in touch and together we’ll work out which of your strengths, or instincts, will work best for you in solving problems.
See you soon – happy holidays!